Gary Lynn Spivey

Gary Lynn Spivey, a loving husband, father, grandfather, and friend, passed peacefully on Sunday, March 23, 2025, in Belton, Texas. He was born on March 17, 1941, in Bowling Green, Kentucky, and lived a life filled with joy, laughter, and a steadfast dedication to his family.

Gary began his impressive career as a butcher's apprentice at the age of 16, transitioning to become a professional butcher until age 31. Seeking new opportunities, he joined Hormel Foods, where he worked as a truck driver and later as a salesman in the food services division, dedicating himself to the company until his retirement in Minneapolis in 2002. Gary earned numerous sales awards and was highly respected by his peers and colleagues. His career took him and his family across Indiana, Kentucky, Minnesota, Iowa, Illinois, and Wisconsin.

In his senior year at Beech Grove High School in Indianapolis, Indiana, Gary met and fell in love with Merlene Fern Cline. They eloped on October 13, 1959, and began 65 wonderful years of marriage together. They welcomed three children into the world: Derra in 1960, Scott in 1962, and Jeffrey in 1967. Gary cherished his role as a husband and father, relishing each moment spent with his family and creating treasured memories filled with love, laughter and stories.

Gary had a larger-than-life personality, marked by his energy, warmth, and quick wit. He was always smiling and sharing jokes, embodying a humble spirit that never boasted about his own accomplishments. In retirement, he and Merlene travelled extensively, visiting their family and friends across the United States. They visited Europe and the United Kingdom and did several cruises. He had a special affection for Rome and Venice and due to his genuine passion for food and wine, he delighted in the culinary experiences he encountered. 

An enthusiastic fan of the Green Bay Packers and Indiana basketball, Gary collected memorabilia from his favorite teams, proudly showcasing his love for sports. His devotion extended beyond fandom; he also nurtured a great affection for his dogs and grand-dogs over the years. Gary's legacy is enriched by his deep love for his family and he is survived by his beloved wife, Merlene F. Spivey. His children: Derra M. (Spivey) Zieser and husband Don; Gary S. Spivey and wife Lisa; and Jeffrey L. Spivey and wife Laura. 

Known affectionately as "Pop" or "Papa," he was a proud grandfather to: Zachary (Stephanie) Mote, Nicholas (Emily) Spivey, Hannah (Reggie) Richter, Sean Spivey, Jeffrey Spivey, Megan (Jordan) Martin, Mallory (Dakota) Scott, Emma Spivey (Alyssa Castro), Madeline Spivey, and Jonathan Spivey; and bonus grandchildren Jonathan, Derek, and Travis Gingerich. His great-grandchildren include Julia and Max Mote; Norah and Ruby Richter; Olivia and Maeve Spivey; and Myla Martin. They are all honored to carry forward his spirit and values.

He is also lovingly remembered by his niece Dawn Spivey and her life partner Brooks Miller; nephew Darin (Michelle) Spivey; great-niece Leah Spivey; and great-nephew Nathan Spivey.

He was preceded in death by his parents, Robert D. Spivey and Bernice (Kinnaird) Spivey, one brother, Ronnie Joe Spivey, and daughter-in-law Ann Spivey.

Always departing with a warm farewell, Gary would say, “Okie Doke! I love you, see you later,” leaving behind a legacy of love, mentorship, and cherished memories. He was a man of faith and most recently attended Grace Bible Church of Killeen.  As we remember Gary Lynn Spivey, we celebrate a remarkable man who touched the lives of those around him and has been reunited with the Lord in his heavenly home.

A special thank you to the staff of Enhabit hospice and Stoney Brook for their compassionate care.

In lieu of flowers please consider making a memorial donation to St. Jude's Children Research Center or The Wounded Warrior Foundation.

Arrangements are under the direction of Sabrina Young at Young's Daughters Funeral Home and Bereavement center.